Four Growth Questions to Start the New Year (Part 3)

by | Personal Growth

The start of a new year is the perfect time to set a new course. Creating that course begins by answering four questions. The first question is, In What Areas Do You Want to Grow? The second question is, How Do You Plan to Grow? The third question to help you set your course and develop a solid plan for growth is, Who Will Hold You Accountable to Grow?

Accountability brings a mixture of emotions. While we recognize its value in helping us grow, we often prefer the anonymity of a life without accountability. And though we all have areas of our lives where accountability is almost mandated (such as with the law), few of us intentionally pursue accountability relationships to help us grow to our full potential.

Setting growth goals without accountability is nothing more than a license to make excuses. To help you embrace accountability in your growth goals for the new year, consider the following:

  • Identify the Right Accountability Partner – The best accountability involves trust-filled relationships with people who are not afraid to ask you the tough questions. You need people who can uniquely blend grace with growth. Furthermore, consider people who have demonstrated maturity in the area where you desire to grow. This will allow you to not only gain accountability, but mentorship as well.
  • Create Specific Questions – Accountability works best when your accountability partner has a specific question(s) that you’ve given them permission to ask. Without specific questions, most people simply ask, “So how’s it going?” “How’s it going” questions produce vague answers. Get specific!
  • Schedule Accountability – Frequency in accountability displaces complacency in growth. The only way to create frequent accountability is to schedule it in your calendar. Create standing appointments with your accountability partners to ensure your growth remains in focus.

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Who will hold you accountable to grow? That’s a tough question, but one that is essential to personal development. If you want to learn more about setting and reaching growth goals, download my FREE ebook, How to Create a Plan for Personal Growth.

 

Stephen Blandino

Stephen Blandino

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